March 20 is National Proposal Day and following our recent post about a man proposing at his friend’s wedding (without informing said friends), we thought a refresher on how to create the perfect proposal is just what the wedding planner ordered.
For anyone getting ready to propose to their significant other, it can be a nerve-wracking time. How will you propose? When will you propose? If purchasing the ring wasn’t enough, there’s a lot of other questions that must be answered.
Hopefully, our list of do’s and don’ts will make this process trouble-free.
DO tailor the occasion to you and your partner as a couple.
At the end of the day, no matter how big or small you go, it’s about you and your soon-to-be spouse. Are y’all over the top or do you prefer a night in together? It should first and foremost reflect you and your relationship.
DON’T over think it.
When it’s tailored to you, it won’t be complicated. This is the start to a very happy time as a couple and it shouldn’t begin with one filled with complete stress. If it’s special and memorable, that’s all that matters.
DO create a believable reason to dress nice.
It doesn’t have to be a ball gown or tuxedo, but come up with a reason for your partner to get their nails done, get a haircut, dress nice and do whatever they need to be prepared for photos that will last a lifetime.
DON’T forget the ring.
It may seem silly, but as mentioned before, our brains tend to stop working in high-pressure situations. Do a full phone, keys, wallet, ring check before leaving the house.
DO hire a photographer.
This may sound like an unnecessary added element, but in the long run you’ll appreciate having the memories. Bringing professional photos in the mix not only preserves the moment, but, depending on the location, opens the opportunity for photos you can use as an engagement announcement or even a save the date.
DON’T forget plans after.
Whether it’s just a dinner with the two of you or a gathering of close friends and family, it’s important to celebrate the moment outside of the proposal. This is the start to months of planning and preparation, so why not start with a little champagne and revelry?
DO plan a speech.
It may seem silly, but when anxiety and adrenaline are in the mix, your brain might forget where you’re heading next. It happens to the best of us, so take some time to write down some thoughts. You don’t have to read a long speech, you’ll have time for vows later, but adding some personalization and sentimental notes in front of “will you marry me” will be the diamond on top of the ring.
And finally…
DO have a happily ever after.
What can we say? We love love.
