Each Wednesday, we tackle wedding etiquette. At times, it’s a reader question or one from a colleague, friend or family member and other times we’ll cover a popular issue. (Note: Questions may be edited for clarity and brevity.)
Question: My friend is getting married on the same day I have a charity board retreat. Conveniently, the retreat is on the way and close to the ceremony location. Inconveniently, the retreat ends 45 minutes before the wedding starts. I will arrive about 30 minutes before the time stated on the invitation. How early is too early to arrive at a wedding?
Answer: Typically, guests will want to arrive early. A good rule of thumb is 10- to-15 minutes. Try to avoid arriving too much earlier however, because it could throw off the hosts. I tend to run early most of the time, for fear of being late. I’ll either bring a book (or pull up an ebook) to read in the car or scout nearby businesses in advance and plan to run and errand or two. Regardless, just find a way that works best for you to fill the time, rather than showing up too early and causing additional stress on the couple, the family or the wedding planner.
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